The idea that I would like to focus on today is the concept of education from the perspective of Willa Cather's character Jim Burden.
"There was a curious social situation in Black Hawk. All the young men felt the
attraction of the fine, well-set-up country girls who had come to town to earn a
living, and, in nearly every case, to help the father struggle out of debt, or
make it possible for the younger children of the family to go to school.
Those girls had grown up in the first bitter-hard times, and had got little schooling
themselves. But the younger brothers and sisters, from whom they made such
sacrifices and who have had "advantages," never seem to me, when I meet them
now, half as interesting or a well educated. The older girls, who helped to break
up the wild sod, learned so much from life, from poverty, from their mothers and
grandmothers; they had all, like Antonia, been early awakened and made
observant by coming at a tender age from old country to a new." (Willa Cather, My Antonia)
Jim later went on to become a wealthy lawyer. So he was well educated in the traditional sense. But, because if where he came from he was educated by life just like Antonia, Lena, and Tiny. Hard work during tough times is an education that one can't pay for. This type of education is priceless. It teaches us character, fortitude, enterprise, management of resources. Like I always told my class there is knowing and then there is KNOWING. These girls were smart survivors with the intelligence that could match then men.
Jim and the other men were attracted to these young women because they were smart. They were as intelligent as the men. Because of their intelligence and their industry these women would have made great partners and spouses. That is why the men were attracted to them. They weren't BORING, NEEDY CREATURES that needed pampering. They were educated.
Intelligence and education comes in many forms. And when, we are all honest, intelligence is attractive.
PhD Mom